This is a really difficult post for me to write. I am dedicating it to my two kids,  Missy and Bridger, and my two friends BJ and CeeCee.

Many of us have suffered abuse in this life. Many of us have been victims in one way or another. I was lucky as a child never to be exposed to that sort of thing. I grew up believing that the world is a loving and predictable place. I still believe that it is important to focus on love and truth. My problem has been in recognizing and accepting that there are some things that you need to turn away from. It is not possible to heal or help another human if they don’t want to be healed or helped.

Sometimes decisive action is necessary to protect the innocent from harm. Sometimes it is necessary to do what has to be done to get out of the way of fear and anger. In my attempt at being devoted and helpful, I allowed much harm. I am ashamed of how blind I have been. All I can do now is move forward.